If we were all sitting in a room full of heterosexual women and men and the question was asked: By show of hands, who here has been at a party or a club and “made out” or wanted to with someone of the opposite sex? We expect nearly every hand to be raised right? Next […]
The yin yang symbol depicts the natural duality and polarity of this manifest realm. The white part of the yin yang symbol is the yang and represents light, warmth, outward movement of energy and is the masculine element. The dark part or feminine part is the cool, reflective, alluring element. The symbol is most often […]
Now that we’ve set the stage with restraints and laid our erotic snare with the red lipstick tease, what seals his fate of surrender to you is the application of sensual erotic genital touch. And remember: It’s the journey, not the destination. More than anything else, your sensual touch conveys that you are in sexual control. […]
When I was a child of around 7 or 8, the topic of chronic thumb sucking came up, as I remember having to do with one of my cousins. I asked my parents if I sucked my thumb. They said yes, but only briefly. “How did you stop it?” I asked. My father said “go […]
RED LIPSTICK IS THE GREATEST INVENTION OF HUMANITY. IT IS A WINDOW OR INTERFACE, TEMPORARY AS IT IS, INTO THE FATHOMLESS DEPTHS OF FEMALE EROTICISM AND ALONE HAS THE POWER TO ESTABLISH FEMALE PRIMACY.
Dita Von Teese once said that red lipstick and high heels will put the fear of God into men. Why do some women still have to cover their beautiful faces and once were branded “witches” for wearing red lipstick? Because men were threatened by the power of the Feminine and they shut it down. Psychologist’s research […]
A Female Dominant Species: Feminine Action Is Required Humans are Not one of a handful of female dominant species that include elephants, orcas, African lions and most closely related, bonobo apes. Why not? Was it because the competing homosapien required an aggressive male dominating demeanor to provide shelter, protection and food? Who knows for sure, […]
Q: WHY IS IT NECESSARY TO USE SEXUALITY TO CONFRONT TOXIC MASCULINITY? -Brianna T
A: Because it works! As the saying goes “Power is never given, it must be taken”, but don’t confuse confrontation with anger or hostility. We have to understand how we got here, I mean literally how we got here. Every person born male bears the physical genital scar of the hormonal battle they won in the womb….that line down the middle is a scar. Everyone starts out as female in the womb and with the introduction of testosterone, the developing male suppresses and overpowers the female in the womb. Much of what we see in the world is simply the inertia of that initial struggle in the womb carried on in the world. Civilization has been built on the competitiveness that started as part of how we formed and explains why “defense” far outspends care for children. It also explains why we continually hear about women being assaulted or harassed, denied rights and opportunities taken away. Of course not all men suffer from toxic masculinity, but because the structures are there from the beginning there are inequities on the subtle level that aren’t even being acknowledged. But the secret is right before our eyes! The same structure that can result in male aggressiveness and zealous behavior is also what makes them susceptible to your erotic provocations and influence. You just need to understand how it all works and have the confidence to act. Males may have won the battle in the womb, but women can win the war in the world if they will seize the opportunity. Feminine Action Is Required! So put on your “war paint” and get to work…or Play! May we suggest a true red lipstick!
Q: I just love how my Fusion Playdates are going where my guy totally submits to me! I feel so empowered knowing I am bringing the Feminine Principle into the world! – Chelsea B
A: You are pitch perfect Chelsea. Fusion Play is like having your own key to the private loft of the male mind of perception & behavior where you can go in rearrange the interior to your personal taste. Mmmm!
Q: I’M HOPING TO GIVE A MALE PERSPECTIVE HERE. I really like how Fusion has brought together all these different kinds of sexual play I enjoy. You didn’t mention anything about perfume; isn’t smell is one of the senses to be involved? I would much prefer a woman’s thick, smothering perfume over scented candles and spa music for my Fusion play. What are some of your reader’s favorite perfumes that would work? Thank you. – Jared D
A: Great observation Jared! This is where Fusion departs from traditional Tantric massage; same keen awareness of sexual energy, but Fusion uses most all of the senses in provoking erotic male energy that is used to elicit total surrender of the man to a woman’s benign feminine dominance.
Similarly, the music choice for Fusion Play shouldn’t be “relaxing” in the conventional way which is another departure from traditional sensual massage, but it shouldn’t be agitating either. Your music should first give the woman a sense of power and control and secondarily provoke sexual energy in the man that in combination with your Red Lipstick Tease and Sensual Touch will become your own style of erotic waterboarding ultimately resulting in his surrender to you. We want to use all of the senses to overwhelm our partners.
Let’s get Jared some perfume options he can gift his partner with!